Bachelor #23 was 3 Friday nights ago. We met on Match and he seemed like a nice enough guy. We decided to meet up for drinks at a great bar in West Hollywood. At first when we met up it felt a little awkward- like the conversation felt a little forced. It was basic small talk. But the more beers he had the more he seemed to relax and open up. After we ate dinner he took me to his favorite local bar that was within walking distance of the place we had dinner. He was Brazilian and the patrons of this local bar were also Brazilian. Everyone seemed very nice, except for the old drunk white man who was way too into the MMA match that was on TV.
Well the more Bachelor 23 drank the more feminine he sounded. He was drinking beer all night, and then he switched to red wine and just sounded really, really gayish. Maybe it was his accent? Maybe it was a cultural thing? But my gut said "Morgan- there is something gay about him." Maybe it was his compliment of my bracelet and my shoes.... I just didn't get the sense that he was incredibly (or barely) masculine. Maybe it's too much to ask, but I want a man who I think could defend me and my honor if the moment arised. I want a man that doesn't want to borrow my shoes.
In the end he asked me out again, but I didn't see him again. It's just too weird when a guy says to me "I just want to kiss you" in a very non-masculine kind of way. Perhaps I am too picky?