Bachelor #24- Just Another Prick

Hey everyone, it's been forever since I've written so I have some catching up to do. Bachelor #24 was a guy I went out with in June, post my 31st birthday. We met on match (he reached out to me) and was immediately smitten with me... or so it seemed. We emailed back and forth a few times, he was very forward and kept saying he could tell I was the kind of girl he would bring home to meet his family. I guess a red flag was that he was still LIVING with his family (yes he was in his 30s), but I was trying to not judge him for that.

When we started talking on the phone he had just left for a week to go to AZ for work training, but he called me every single night and we FaceTimed every night while he was away. He was really nice to talk to, very friendly, seemed close to his family (obviously because he lived with them), had a decent job, and it was nice to be able to see who I was talking to. We seemed to click right away, but every time he said to me that he felt that we were a good match and he "had a good feeling about us," I would say "slow down yo, we haven't even met yet."

Well we had 1 date and I thought it was great. We went to this great little Cuban place and had a great dinner and great conversation. Come to find out he was friends with a friend of mine, which gave me hope that he wasn't a dickhead. After dinner we went to a bar and a country band was playing. So we stayed, drank and listened to the music and had a great time. He loved country music as much as I do, which was great because I've never dated a guy who likes country as much as I do.

After the bar we went back to my place and watched a movie. I should've known it wasn't going to work when it was late and his mother was calling him, asking when he was going to be home... #Lame.

After our date we continued to talk, but he never asked me out again. I even asked our mutual friend about him and she said he was a super nice guy. Obviously not. He is just another Mr. Hit It and Quit It. Shortly after our date a friend of mine passed away, and he was aware of this, and he didn't even check to see how I was after the funeral. That was another red flag that he was a piece of shit.

The lesson I learned from this experience is that any guy who claims that you're the kind of girl he would bring home to meet his mother and then sleeps with you and peaces out immediately is a shit face and it's better to learn that right from the start. Fuck him!