Hi friends. If you haven't noticed I took a bit of a hiatus from writing. Partly out of frustration, partly due to lack of time, and partly due to the fact that sometimes it hurts to rehash these stories.
Bachelor #34 had so much potential that it sucks to write about him. He was the kind of guy with an infectious laugh. He was not only funny himself, but he laughed at everything I said. Aside from that he was cute in that really sweet, wholesome way. It didn't hurt that he was successful in his career and was an actual adult.
Our first date we met up for brunch, and we had such a great time. It was easy. It was fun. It was real.
Our second date we had dinner at a restaurant near my office that I loved. He showed up in a suit and was all sorts of handsome. He was so polite to the waitress, which is a very important indicator of their overall attitude. It was such a great evening. We laughed a ton and he picked out some great wine. He was so classy.
Our third date I decided to invite him out and we went to the museum together. We spent the entire afternoon looking at and discussing art. It was so refreshing to be with someone who had an interest in something other than drinking and fucking. He was so educated and just so interesting to talk to.
After the museum he wanted to hang out more. So we went to get coffee, talked more and then went and had dinner. We literally hung out the entire day and night.
What happened after than magical third date? Nothing. Not a god damn thing. Never heard from him again. I don't know why. I don't know what happened. But I never heard from him again. And I will be honest, it fucking sucked and it hurt a lot. Maybe he met someone else, maybe he died in a car crash. I will never know, and that is what bothers me the most. It's always the hardest when you connect with someone and have a few good dates with someone who disappears for no good reason. I didn't want to continue after him, but I didn't have a choice.
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