To put the timeline into perspective, I went out with Bachelors 9, 10, 11 and 12 while I was dating Bachelor #8 (Meow Mix), yes I had a pretty busy fall.
I knew it wouldn't work out with Bachelor # 12 because he lived in Costa Mesa, and I didn't have the faintest idea where that even was. We only had 2 dates so this story isn't so interesting, I just learned during the process that I need to find someone within 30 minutes of me because I have 0 desire to commute to see anyone. Our first date we met up in Newport Beach. We had a nice dinner, saw Paranormal Activity 4 (per my request) and then grabbed some drinks after. It was a perfectly nice date, and he was a perfectly nice guy. Here are some red flags I immediately noticed:
1) He was a volleyball coach, aka substitute teacher, aka made no money
2) He hated his stepfamily, like passionately hated them (not a good sign when there's so much hate)
3) He liked to indulge in the "Mary Jane" if you will. I've dated potheads before, I will not date them again.
4) His mother was an alcoholic, and his ex-girlfriend was an alcoholic. Clearly he attracts craziness, and I want no part of that.
Our 2nd date he came to my neck of the woods and we got some dinner and rented a movie. Again, not the most exciting evening ever, but it was fine. After this date he kept asking me to come on over to where he lived, and there was just no part of me that wanted to waste money on gas going to see a guy who I knew it wouldn't work out with long term. So I ended it.
PS- I also ended it because one night he decided to text me a picture of his dick (completely unsolicited mind you) and I quickly realized he was a perverted freak. Yeah, not cool. I told you this wasn't a very interesting story LOL.
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