I had a date with Bachelor #21 this weekend, and it wasn't terrible. Bachelor #21 actually called earlier in the week to ask me out for lunch this weekend, which automatically earned him brownie points.
We met up at one of my favorite gastro pubs for lunch and we had a pleasant time. He wasn't awful to look at, and talking to him wasn't like pulling teeth. He seemed genuinely nice, maybe because he is from Maine originally and LA hasn't corrupted him yet. However, for a split second during lunch, while he was talking, the thought popped into my head "Is he gay?" Maybe it was because he seemed a little soft spoken, or maybe it's because was nervous, but the thought crossed my mind, and I feel like anytime that thought pops into your mind it's a red flag.
He didn't say anything that would make me question if he was gay or straight, but he just didn't exude a ton of masculinity. Not that he spoke with his hands or did or said anything flamboyent or feminine, I just can't place my finger on it.
Since we had a nice time, and I wasn't bored to tears, I would be willing to see him again to see if I get that feeling once more.
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