Bachelor #1 was my first post-breakup date. We met on OKCupid, which I would not recommend to anyone. Here is my beef with OKCupid:
1. The site itself sucks. If you have epilepsy and can't handle flashing display ads, then do not go on this site because it will give you a seizure.
2. Many of the men on this site are creepy. This is probably because the site is free to use, and this in itself attracts creepy, broke ass people. I'm not saying everyone on OKCupid is creepy and/or cheap, but it seems to be a magnet from my brief experience.
3. There are a lot of people on this site just looking to "hook up" if you get my drift. Yeah- nasty.
But I met Bachelor #1 before I became privvy to any of this. Bachelor #1 was a hot, 29 year old, stunt man (allegedly). We met up at a cool little bar on the West Side and had a great time. We had a few drinks, shared some stories, had a few laughs, he told me all about the fascinating world of stunt men; it was a good date. I believe God took mercy on me considering what I had just gone through, so he threw me a bone and was like "here, start with this hot guy."
As he was waiting with me for the valet to bring my car I knew in my gut that I would never see him again. How did I know this? Because 1) He's 29 and hot- no young hot guy is looking to settle down- let's be real 2) He was a stunt man- not exactly the profession of a man you would settle down with.
I never heard from Bachelor #1 again, but I didn't really care because I had already lined up a date with Bachelor #2.